I was raised to be fiercely independent
and unemotional. ( I almost put some type of modifier in front of
unemotional, but 'terribly' or 'awfully' aren't appropriate.) “If
you don't make your own decisions, you are allowing someone else to
make them for you!” is one of the life lessons I remember hearing
as a young boy. I guess it stuck, maybe too well.
In today's world if one is not a “team
player” one is, by default, an outcast. Never tell a future
employer that you would rather make your own decisions and accept
full responsibility for the the consequences if that decision
happens to be wrong. It seems that independent thought has become a
socially unacceptable asset.
Amadeus Mozart, Homer, Michelangelo,
Vincent Van Gogh, Albert Einstein...well you get the idea. Were they
a member of some huge team who gave us the Sistine Chapel, Starry
Night, or Requiem?
No, these were all creative thinkers
who preferred to “do it their way”.
I believe there is a place for team
thinkers, group brainstorming, and understanding the needs of the
many.
I just wonder why the ones who believe
that a team is the only way to accomplish a goal do not allow that we
independent thinkers may well be able to accomplish that same goal
with a lot less overhead.
More on the unemotional statement
later.
Usually, you should say you're a team player because the boss at whatever place is a huge egomaniac and wants to think you're going to have to depend on him/her for everything. Micromanagers.
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